Trauma

I’ve been a bit quiet on MyEverydayToday blog lately, and there’s a reason for that. I’ve been pouring my time into learning about childhood trauma—through volunteering at a children’s home, reading books, attending seminars, and getting training on emotional health. What I’ve discovered has changed how I see kids. We often label children as rebellious, prideful, or unruly, assuming it’s bad parenting or a choice the kids are making. But so much of what looks like misbehavior is actually trauma showing up—from medical crises like my daughter’s stroke at three, natural disasters, or tough early experiences. It wasn’t until someone pointed out her medical trauma a couple of years ago that I realized how deeply it’s shaped her emotions and responses, even now. Those early moments, from pregnancy to childhood, lay the foundation for who we become. I’m excited to start sharing more of what I’m learning—specific books, trainings, and resources that have helped me understand and support kids better. And since my blog is also about encouraging marriages, I’ve been seeing connections there too. Trauma doesn’t just affect kids; it shapes how we relate in marriage, and I want to explore how these lessons can strengthen our relationships. With the right support, there’s hope for healing—for kids and for couples.